My girlfriend just dumped me...
09-22-2005, 01:46 PM
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I feel your pain. But as said before, you'll get over her sooner than you think.
I felt just like you once and thought I had just lost the one and only girl in my life I really love. I thought I love her more than anything else, and at that time I really did.
But after she broke up I had found a girl I felt in love with... and married. Today we are married for 13 years and we are a couple for half of my life now.
So, it was a real good thing my former gf broke up with me, because I had found the REAL love of my life.
It is hard, no doubt, but it doesn't help you in any way if you life in the past. She was part of your life and will allways be, and that's a good thing, you had a good time. But you have to get over it and look forward.
I don't see a way your relationship will work, under these circumstances. Sorry for you, pal.
I felt just like you once and thought I had just lost the one and only girl in my life I really love. I thought I love her more than anything else, and at that time I really did.
But after she broke up I had found a girl I felt in love with... and married. Today we are married for 13 years and we are a couple for half of my life now.
So, it was a real good thing my former gf broke up with me, because I had found the REAL love of my life.
It is hard, no doubt, but it doesn't help you in any way if you life in the past. She was part of your life and will allways be, and that's a good thing, you had a good time. But you have to get over it and look forward.
I don't see a way your relationship will work, under these circumstances. Sorry for you, pal.
09-23-2005, 09:40 AM
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Thank you all for your valuable support. She and I met yesterday in the park together and, I think, that was our last meet. I can sense that she gave me two options: (1) Run away together and start everything from scratch or (2) we just split. What I now have took me seven years to build up and if I leave, I have to leave everything behind to my family. (maybe my E60, too :'( ). I can cash out some money and she can do that, too. But, not much as you know we're in the valley with expensive housing.
Also, she mentioned and sensed that I didn't love her as much as she expected, and she kept convincing me to stay back and don't go with option (1). She told me that she knew for sure I wouldn't choose option (1) because she thought I didn't love her enough and my heart is not strong enough to over come my consciousness.
What I'm afraid is after leaving everything behind going with her and things don't work out, it'll be shameful for both of us when we're back to the family. And I don't think I can come back with that face. No way.
Another thing is what happens if she's disappointed at me? She'd run away and I'd be alone in the desert
Anyhew, I think I should follow Iceman advice. Let it get over and move on.
Also, she mentioned and sensed that I didn't love her as much as she expected, and she kept convincing me to stay back and don't go with option (1). She told me that she knew for sure I wouldn't choose option (1) because she thought I didn't love her enough and my heart is not strong enough to over come my consciousness.
What I'm afraid is after leaving everything behind going with her and things don't work out, it'll be shameful for both of us when we're back to the family. And I don't think I can come back with that face. No way.
Another thing is what happens if she's disappointed at me? She'd run away and I'd be alone in the desert
Anyhew, I think I should follow Iceman advice. Let it get over and move on.
09-25-2005, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by my530i' date='Sep 23 2005, 09:40 AM
Thank you all for your valuable support. She and I met yesterday in the park together and, I think, that was our last meet. I can sense that she gave me two options: (1) Run away together and start everything from scratch or (2) we just split. What I now have took me seven years to build up and if I leave, I have to leave everything behind to my family. (maybe my E60, too :'( ). I can cash out some money and she can do that, too. But, not much as you know we're in the valley with expensive housing.
Also, she mentioned and sensed that I didn't love her as much as she expected, and she kept convincing me to stay back and don't go with option (1). She told me that she knew for sure I wouldn't choose option (1) because she thought I didn't love her enough and my heart is not strong enough to over come my consciousness.
What I'm afraid is after leaving everything behind going with her and things don't work out, it'll be shameful for both of us when we're back to the family. And I don't think I can come back with that face. No way.
Another thing is what happens if she's disappointed at me? She'd run away and I'd be alone in the desert
Anyhew, I think I should follow Iceman advice. Let it get over and move on.
Also, she mentioned and sensed that I didn't love her as much as she expected, and she kept convincing me to stay back and don't go with option (1). She told me that she knew for sure I wouldn't choose option (1) because she thought I didn't love her enough and my heart is not strong enough to over come my consciousness.
What I'm afraid is after leaving everything behind going with her and things don't work out, it'll be shameful for both of us when we're back to the family. And I don't think I can come back with that face. No way.
Another thing is what happens if she's disappointed at me? She'd run away and I'd be alone in the desert
Anyhew, I think I should follow Iceman advice. Let it get over and move on.
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Sorry to hear that man!All our heart goes to you...hope you can find a way out...its just sad for someone you have that long to just dissapear..
I'd cry my heart out too
09-25-2005, 07:13 PM
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I know it sucks right now, but everything works out in the end.
There are many girls out there.
You'll find the right one.
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There are many girls out there.
You'll find the right one.
(unitl then, there are strip clubs
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09-26-2005, 06:46 AM
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Originally Posted by my530i' date='Sep 21 2005, 12:29 AM
Alright, people. Thanks so much for supporting and things are cleared up. We're happy together again. Cheers 
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? I talked to her from the bottom of my heart and all my love for her with true enthusiasm. :-)
I love her as much as blue sky?
? ? I talked to her from the bottom of my heart and all my love for her with true enthusiasm. :-)I love her as much as blue sky?
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Be a man, and dump the biotch. AND QUIT CRYING for god's sake! 
Show her who's boss and let her split if she wants. Have you ever considered that maybe she needs a stronger man? One that won't cry at the thought of losing her? I'm not sure what culture you're from, but American girls these days don't like ultra-sensitive guys (unless they're into gay guys). That's my experience any ways.
Life goes on, there are plenty of girls out there for you to meet. Did you know women out number men 60/40?
Show her who's boss and let her split if she wants. Have you ever considered that maybe she needs a stronger man? One that won't cry at the thought of losing her? I'm not sure what culture you're from, but American girls these days don't like ultra-sensitive guys (unless they're into gay guys). That's my experience any ways.
Life goes on, there are plenty of girls out there for you to meet. Did you know women out number men 60/40?
Originally Posted by my530i' date='Sep 22 2005, 02:39 PM
While I'm writing this message, she called me and I was crying again at my work place. What a shame, huh? We just hung up and she said she would call me back. I'm waiting for her call, but I'm very pessimistic about this call. It'd go nowhere.
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