My girlfriend just dumped me...
09-21-2005, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted by alohalc' date='Sep 20 2005, 06:02 PM
ok, some girls are extremely sensitive...especially to some sensitive topics/wordings.? i think it depends on how serious were you when you asked that question.? were you asking her in a confronting manner or just joking?? no matter what, she thinks it's your fault...even you were just joking.? order some flowers and have the flower shop delivered them to her company.? if that doesn't work, buy some more flowers the next day and take them to her company your own.? after everything is settled and she cools off a little, talk to her and explain the whole thing.? tell her how much she hurted you.? she'll probably understand she is somewhat too sensitive for just that one question.
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Originally Posted by 530iii' date='Sep 21 2005, 10:46 AM
ALWAYS have a contingency (backup) plan whether it be your house, finances, job or car and especially women. 
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Hey 530i you got all your car and ur loved one.
So leave her alone delete the damn number - of course for future usage you can write it on somewhere - after weeks you do not call her or look to meet her she WILL come back if she really luvs ya...???
U know families ar e always a diff issues in the begining, but one thing u have to make sure: once she is w u ur her family too or will be.
I said to my wife before marring her if she respects that our family we2 r the new and only 1st family, so her and my family can be ONLY 2nd or live w them! She agreed and we are happy married couple.
So give her time, she is like an e60 M5 launch control -leave it cool cold down, then you will see if it was serious ADULT relation she comes back if not
sorry for u but Bro w e60 gettin'known w chicks is easier than ever, whenever I take gas w my jet black...
but for me ONLY my wife you know like in the Museum: see no touch 
We are the best **** Forum on EARTH so why not we cud also share ideas and save lives
Hey 530i you got all your car and ur loved one.
So leave her alone delete the damn number - of course for future usage you can write it on somewhere - after weeks you do not call her or look to meet her she WILL come back if she really luvs ya...???
U know families ar e always a diff issues in the begining, but one thing u have to make sure: once she is w u ur her family too or will be.
I said to my wife before marring her if she respects that our family we2 r the new and only 1st family, so her and my family can be ONLY 2nd or live w them! She agreed and we are happy married couple.
So give her time, she is like an e60 M5 launch control -leave it cool cold down, then you will see if it was serious ADULT relation she comes back if not
sorry for u but Bro w e60 gettin'known w chicks is easier than ever, whenever I take gas w my jet black...
but for me ONLY my wife you know like in the Museum: see no touch
09-21-2005, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by jenny' date='Sep 21 2005, 05:04 PM
[quote name='530iii' date='Sep 21 2005, 10:46 AM']ALWAYS have a contingency (backup) plan whether it be your house, finances, job or car and especially women.
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[/quote]It's 530iii's post. Not my post. My post is really really love my GF, but 530iii's is about contigency plans.
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Originally Posted by my530i' date='Sep 21 2005, 06:46 PM
[quote name='jenny' date='Sep 21 2005, 05:04 PM'][quote name='530iii' date='Sep 21 2005, 10:46 AM']ALWAYS have a contingency (backup) plan whether it be your house, finances, job or car and especially women.
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[/quote]It's 530iii's post. Not my post. My post is really really love my GF, but 530iii's is about contigency plans.
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[/quote]Yes that was me!
09-22-2005, 02:37 AM
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Originally Posted by my530i' date='Sep 21 2005, 09:32 AM
Alohalc,
I was about to say 'thank you' to you this morning, but I was too busy until now. To be honest, you're the man, Dr. Phil!?
? 
You shine me the way in the tunnel?
Thank you so much, Alohalc.
I was about to say 'thank you' to you this morning, but I was too busy until now. To be honest, you're the man, Dr. Phil!?
? You shine me the way in the tunnel?
Thank you so much, Alohalc.
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Originally Posted by 530E60NL' date='Sep 21 2005, 09:34 AM
You've done this before???? ?
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. in fact, i've never done anything so wrong that i have to buy something to settle everything .
09-22-2005, 10:39 AM
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OK, guys, I'm back with more stories.
After the storm, we were very sweet on the phone again. However, her mind now is stronger and think more guilt than love. She now calls it quit because she (maybe I do, too) think that our love is at the end of the road, there is no way out for both of us. We had our meet last night with lots of sentiment and emotion, and did not want to go home at all, but the clock was ticking on us. We embraced each other and wished the time stop forever. She called me very early this morning at my work number before I was in and left a farewell message and saying that she wouldn't call me later on today for the meet we planned when we just made up. She insisted to end the relationship although I know for sure she still loves me very very much. I can sense that. After hearing the message, I busted in tears
:'( . Until now, I'm still weeping. Countless tissue have been used. :'(
There's nothing I can do now. I'm helpless and hopeless :'(. I just hope she changes her mind again, but I doubt it. Love is blind.
Our love has a name: "Then-what love" because I asked her "then what?" in our relationship and I keeps popping in her mind.
While I'm writing this message, she called me and I was crying again at my work place. What a shame, huh? We just hung up and she said she would call me back. I'm waiting for her call, but I'm very pessimistic about this call. It'd go nowhere.
(To clear up the relationship b/w us, culture and religion, etc. are the cause, and you know it's impossible)
After the storm, we were very sweet on the phone again. However, her mind now is stronger and think more guilt than love. She now calls it quit because she (maybe I do, too) think that our love is at the end of the road, there is no way out for both of us. We had our meet last night with lots of sentiment and emotion, and did not want to go home at all, but the clock was ticking on us. We embraced each other and wished the time stop forever. She called me very early this morning at my work number before I was in and left a farewell message and saying that she wouldn't call me later on today for the meet we planned when we just made up. She insisted to end the relationship although I know for sure she still loves me very very much. I can sense that. After hearing the message, I busted in tears
:'( . Until now, I'm still weeping. Countless tissue have been used. :'(There's nothing I can do now. I'm helpless and hopeless :'(. I just hope she changes her mind again, but I doubt it. Love is blind.
Our love has a name: "Then-what love" because I asked her "then what?" in our relationship and I keeps popping in her mind.
While I'm writing this message, she called me and I was crying again at my work place. What a shame, huh? We just hung up and she said she would call me back. I'm waiting for her call, but I'm very pessimistic about this call. It'd go nowhere.
(To clear up the relationship b/w us, culture and religion, etc. are the cause, and you know it's impossible)
09-22-2005, 11:01 AM
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Originally Posted by 530E60NL' date='Sep 21 2005, 08:34 PM
[quote name='alohalc' date='Sep 20 2005, 06:02 PM']ok, some girls are extremely sensitive...etc..
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[/quote]Haven't we all?
As my father used to say: 'There are more women than churches..'
Cheer up man. This happens to everybody every now and then.
It makes you appreciate the times together with the next lucky victim even more..
Good luck getting over her..
It'll happen sooner then you think..
09-22-2005, 11:07 AM
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Well said Fred!!
Give it some time.. Eventually you will find someone else and understand why she broke up with you..
Give it some time.. Eventually you will find someone else and understand why she broke up with you..
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Originally Posted by my530i' date='Sep 22 2005, 12:39 PM
OK, guys, I'm back with more stories.
After the storm, we were very sweet on the phone again. However, her mind now is stronger and think more guilt than love. She now calls it quit because she (maybe I do, too) think that our love is at the end of the road, there is no way out for both of us. We had our meet last night with lots of sentiment and emotion, and did not want to go home at all, but the clock was ticking on us. We embraced each other and wished the time stop forever. She called me very early this morning at my work number before I was in and left a farewell message and saying that she wouldn't call me later on today for the meet we planned when we just made up. She insisted to end the relationship although I know for sure she still loves me very very much. I can sense that. After hearing the message, I busted in tears :'(? . Until now, I'm still weeping. Countless tissue have been used. :'(
There's nothing I can do now. I'm helpless and hopeless :'(. I just hope she changes her mind again, but I doubt it. Love is blind.
Our love has a name: "Then-what love" because I asked her "then what?" in our relationship and I keeps popping in her mind.
While I'm writing this message, she called me and I was crying again at my work place. What a shame, huh? We just hung up and she said she would call me back. I'm waiting for her call, but I'm very pessimistic about this call. It'd go nowhere.
(To clear up the relationship b/w us, culture and religion, etc. are the cause, and you know it's impossible)
After the storm, we were very sweet on the phone again. However, her mind now is stronger and think more guilt than love. She now calls it quit because she (maybe I do, too) think that our love is at the end of the road, there is no way out for both of us. We had our meet last night with lots of sentiment and emotion, and did not want to go home at all, but the clock was ticking on us. We embraced each other and wished the time stop forever. She called me very early this morning at my work number before I was in and left a farewell message and saying that she wouldn't call me later on today for the meet we planned when we just made up. She insisted to end the relationship although I know for sure she still loves me very very much. I can sense that. After hearing the message, I busted in tears
:'(? . Until now, I'm still weeping. Countless tissue have been used. :'(There's nothing I can do now. I'm helpless and hopeless :'(. I just hope she changes her mind again, but I doubt it. Love is blind.
Our love has a name: "Then-what love" because I asked her "then what?" in our relationship and I keeps popping in her mind.
While I'm writing this message, she called me and I was crying again at my work place. What a shame, huh? We just hung up and she said she would call me back. I'm waiting for her call, but I'm very pessimistic about this call. It'd go nowhere.
(To clear up the relationship b/w us, culture and religion, etc. are the cause, and you know it's impossible)
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