I Think my Girlfriend is Cheating on Me!
10-23-2008, 08:35 AM
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I've never talked about this before, but I really need the boards advice on what could be a crucial decision. I?ve suspected for some time now that my girl has been cheating on me.
The usual signs? Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.
My girl has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, ?Just some friends from work, you don?t know them.?
I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn?t in a taxi?
I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my girl I think deep down I just didn?t want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.
I decided I was going to park my 5er next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my 5er, that I noticed that oil is leaking under my car.
Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?
The usual signs? Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up.
My girl has been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I ask their names she always says, ?Just some friends from work, you don?t know them.?
I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive. Although I can hear a car driving off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn?t in a taxi?
I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my girl I think deep down I just didn?t want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to really check on her.
I decided I was going to park my 5er next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole street when she came home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my 5er, that I noticed that oil is leaking under my car.
Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?
10-23-2008, 08:37 AM
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I am confused... r u asking for advise on fixing ur ride or asking on how to handle your girl?
10-23-2008, 08:38 AM
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That is the best! I felt so bad, but ended up laughing so hard. I think you've already figured out what you need to focus on and what's more important.
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Originally Posted by C's Bimmer' post='701168' date='Oct 23 2008, 09:38 AM
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I believe these are two separate threads:
Regarding #1, it sure sounds like it. Seems like a similar situation with one of my ex-girlfriends from way back when. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Regarding #2, hopefully someone will chime in about your oil problem.
- About your cheating girlfriend
- Your leaking oil problem
Regarding #1, it sure sounds like it. Seems like a similar situation with one of my ex-girlfriends from way back when. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Regarding #2, hopefully someone will chime in about your oil problem.
10-23-2008, 08:41 AM
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Originally Posted by C's Bimmer' post='701168' date='Oct 23 2008, 11:38 AM
That is the best! I felt so bad, but ended up laughing so hard. I think you've already figured out what you need to focus on and what's more important. HAHAHA!
10-23-2008, 08:44 AM
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You my friend have more issues than you lead us to believe. You are in love with your car. LOL
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waaahhh!!! I'm a bit confused but can't help it it was funny!!
I'm a bit confused but can't help it it was funny!!
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At least it's nothing serious...
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Originally Posted by tonymac' post='701185' date='Oct 23 2008, 09:44 AM
You my friend have more issues than you lead us to believe. You are in love with your car. LOL
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he cares more about his car ,