oh my god that is horrible.. i hope your problems get resolved quickly for you.. and its true sometimes it takes something drastic to put things into a different perspective about whats important in your life.. it looks like the trunk and everything above the bumper was crumbled.. absorbed the shock so to speak.. but it looks like the actual steel under the bumper stayed put? am i wrong? correct me if i am.. to me thats a good car.. if thats the case i feel safer wtith my boys in the back.. there are alot of assholes out there that dont pay attention..

glad noone got hurt bad.. hope your feeling okay.. (your wife too)