How will you know if you are in love?
08-07-2009, 09:04 PM
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So I met this doctor yesterday. She was very beautiful and had a really good personality. That was the first time I met her. When I got to the building I was so stressed and mad but when I met with her, I was so calm. Is it just lust I am feeling or is this love at first sight? I am desperate to meet up with her again...
08-07-2009, 09:36 PM
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Congratulations, I hope she is someone special to you. My advice -don't rush it, let it flow and don't worry about "when you should know" just let it happen and if she's the one we will expect pics of the wedding!!! 
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Originally Posted by HongKong_5er' post='969212' date='Aug 8 2009, 01:04 AM
So I met this doctor yesterday. She was very beautiful and had a really good personality. That was the first time I met her. When I got to the building I was so stressed and mad but when I met with her, I was so calm. Is it just lust I am feeling or is this love at first sight? I am desperate to meet up with her again...
08-08-2009, 03:56 AM
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there is no such thing as love at first sight. lust at first sight, yes. love takes time to develop. If you believe in love at first sight, you are destined for heartbreak. either you wont ever find it, or if you think you have, you will eventually be dissapointed when that person doesnt live up to expectations you create based on your initial interpretation of who she really is, which is ALWAYS skewed because YOU DONT KNOW HER yet.
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Originally Posted by craigm1841' post='969377' date='Aug 8 2009, 07:56 AM
there is no such thing as love at first sight. lust at first sight, yes. love takes time to develop. If you believe in love at first sight, you are destined for heartbreak. either you wont ever find it, or if you think you have, you will eventually be dissapointed when that person doesnt live up to expectations you create based on your initial interpretation of who she really is, which is ALWAYS skewed because YOU DONT KNOW HER yet.
08-08-2009, 09:12 AM
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when I had my consultation with her I did see a ring. How will I know if that is a wedding ring or just a ring?
I think she is too young to be married. I think she is 24.
I think she is too young to be married. I think she is 24.
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Originally Posted by HongKong_5er' post='969553' date='Aug 8 2009, 10:12 AM
when I had my consultation with her I did see a ring. How will I know if that is a wedding ring or just a ring?
I think she is too young to be married. I think she is 24.
I think she is too young to be married. I think she is 24.
Simple, ask her out. If she's married, she'll turn you down (usually politely), if not you may just get the girl. You'll never know until you ask, never be afraid, the worst they can say is "no"
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any pics???!! lol 
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wow. i dont know how it is in Hong Kong, but i know more married 24 year olds than single...
i dont know what the culture is like over there. in America left ring finger 1 ring is engaged, 2 rings is married. engagement ring is traditionally more flashy, many times one large diamond.
i dont know what the culture is like over there. in America left ring finger 1 ring is engaged, 2 rings is married. engagement ring is traditionally more flashy, many times one large diamond.
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During your consultation, did she smile when she asked you to "turn your head and cough?"